Mathilda E.A. Martinson
Died April 3, 2014
SUTTONS BAY – Mathilda Emily Anne (Schlueter)
Martinson, 98, of Suttons Bay passed away Thursday, April 3, 2014 at Munson
Hospice House.
Millie was born Oct. 22, 1915 on the Schlueter family farm. She was the daughter of John Henry and Rosa
(Hohnke) Schlueter. On March 24, 1936 at
the First Lutheran Church of Suttons Bay she married her loving husband of 62
years, Raymond Wellington Martinson, who preceded her in death on Nov. 25,
1998. She was still using their treasured
heirloom wedding trousseau suite from Schenectady until her passing.
A true
daughter of Leelanau, she was born, raised and spent her entire life in the county. She was confirmed at St. Paul’s Lutheran
Church of Good Harbor and was a member of First Lutheran in Suttons Bay and lived
a life well lived that spanned the horse and buggy to today’s modern era.
Millie attended the Martin School on Amore Road during the one room
school house era. As there weren’t enough
skis between her and her siblings they would each ski on a single homemade ski
down the hills from their farmhouse to attend school.
A
spirited and slightly mischievous young lady, Millie would disassemble and reassemble
her parent’s alarm clocks and once when she was 13, Millie and a cohort
“borrowed” a relative’s car and drove to Traverse City - teaching herself the
rules of the road as she went. An
enterprising young lady she and her sister, Tillie, installed a gas pump at the
Schlueter family farm and sold gas to the area farmers.
To
pursue high school at the newly created Leland Public High School, Millie moved
into Leland to live with her grandmother, Otilla (Otto) Hohnke. In those days girls were required to wear
skirts and she often dreaded the cold winter trek from her grandmother’s house
on Christmas Tree Corner to school as the winds off of Lake Michigan almost
blew her over the bridge.
Millie also had the opportunity to meet her grandmother’s good friend
and legendary film actress, Carole Lombard.
Carole would often visit them in Leland and they would share stories
over coffee and pie.
This
friendship influenced Millie’s love of performing in plays and musicals,
oftentimes staged upstairs of the old Morey’s Grocery Store in Suttons Bay. She also once had the lead role in a play
that was so successful that it was moved from Leland to the old Michigan
Theater in Traverse City.
From
the day of their marriage until 1974, Millie and Ray were the second generation
to operate Leelanau County’s only funeral home and ambulance service, the
Martinson Funeral Home. The 24/7 nature
of those two endeavors left little personal freedom, but Millie’s personal
touch, compassion, and attention to detail never wavered when it came to those who
entrusted the funeral home with the care of their loved one.
Her
character of hard work and independence was evident well into her golden
years. Millie would be out and about picking
up brush, painting, and scolding anyone who tried to assist - all while living
independently until this past January.
Millie was the family grand dame, the Rose Kennedy to our crazy clan,
and supreme matriarch. She was kindness
personified, non-judgmental, and a protector and confidante to her grandchildren. Anything confided to her would stay with her
and her alone. She gave sound counsel to
keep her grandchildren safe, especially if anything on the police scanner arose
during their alleged “social events.”
Many
in town will remember a very large black Cadillac driven by a little lady who
could barely see over the steering wheel.
Even at the age of 95, Millie never turned down a motorcycle ride and
loved beach parties. The family will
cherish the wonderful memories made at Millie’s beach house – a house that she
and Ray built in 1937 that has been the family bonding site for generations.
Millie is survived by her three children,
Robert (Kumiko) Martinson, Sandra (Ray) Bufka, Cynthia (Eugene) Charest; a
sister, Ida Dempsey; seven grandchildren, Chad (Jennifer) Bufka, Beth Charest,
Eric (Tina) Charest, Dolly Martinson, Don (Christine) Martinson, Nick (Natasha)
Martinson, Ranve Martinson; ten great grandchildren, Naomi Myers, Natalie
Myers, Savannah Thompson, Teagan Martinson, Ava Martinson, Noah Charest, Paige
Charest, Madison Charest, Shyah Charest and Staley Charest.
She
was preceded in death by her siblings; Othilda Snohr and Theodore Schlueter; an
infant brother, Wilbur H. Schlueter; and a grandson, Todd Bufka.
Visitation will be held from 2 to 8 p.m. with a sharing of memories of
Millie at 6:30 p.m. on Monday, April 14 at the Martinson Funeral Home of
Suttons Bay. The funeral service will be
held at 11 a.m. with visitation one hour prior on Tuesday, April 15 also at the
funeral home. Burial in the Lutheran
Cemetery of Suttons Bay will follow.
Reverend Kent R. Lee will officiate.
The
Martinson family extends their deepest appreciation to Bob and Fran of the Toy
House Retirement Home of Suttons Bay.
Your genuine care and compassion for our dearest Millie will never be
forgotten.
Memorials may be directed to the Lutheran Cemetery Association, PO Box
206, Suttons Bay, MI, 49682.
Millie
is being served by her family, the Martinson Funeral Home of Suttons Bay.
Our most sincere condolences to the Martinson family on your loss of dear Mathilda. What a remarkable woman she was -- ahead of her time! May she now rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteOur love and prayers,
Judy and Glenn LaCross