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March 3, 2020

Marilyn R. Klinefelter Died February 29, 2020


Marilyn R. Klinefelter
Died Feb. 29, 2020

SUTTONS BAY – Marilyn Ruth Klinefelter, 89, of Suttons Bay, passed away on Saturday, February 29, 2020 at Munson Medical Center.

Marilyn was born on March 3, 1930 at the family home in Suttons Bay the last child of Carl L. and Lena (Bahle) Garthe and granddaughter of early Leelanau County Norwegian settlers.

After graduating from the Union Stone School in 1947, she attended Central Michigan University and earned her teaching degree.  She briefly taught Glen Arbor kindergarten and moved to the Northport High School in September 1953.  There she met another new teacher, Tom Klinefelter, and they were married at the Suttons Bay Congregational Church on June 18, 1955.

Tom accepted a teaching position in the Detroit area in the early 1960s and with their growing family in tow, moved to Livonia where they remained until the early 2000s.  Here, Marilyn was very active in her church, volunteering and sitting on many boards.  She was especially proud of being area president of Church Women United for the Detroit area.  Marilyn and the family returned to Suttons Bay every summer and ran the Bay Theatre from 1961 until 1976.  After Marilyn’s mother passed in the early 1980s, she took over the Garthe Guest House B & B in the village which had been run by her family since the early 1930s.  After leaving downstate and returning to Suttons Bay, she ran the B & B full time, welcoming back returning guests year after year.  Marilyn had a great sense of humor and was a friend to any one she came in contact.

Some of Marilyn’s pastimes were enjoying a sit & sip of tea and cookies, sewing, reading, and a rousing game of Canasta.  She was an avid pursuer of antiques and loved a good yard sale.  She always dreamed of her own antique shop and her home was full of treasures – a testimony to her dream.  Marilyn had an infectious smile with a twinkle in her blue eyes which lit up a room.  Her many selfless acts earned her many close friends which she remained in contact with for years.  She loved to write a letter or a note and tell a good story.

She and Tom loved to travel and spent many winters in Florida and Alabama with family and friends, but her most memorable trip was to her parents’ ancestral home in Surnadal, Norway, where she spent time with distant cousins and visited family homesteads.  Her travels also took her and Tom to Great Britain, Asia, Alaska, Russia, the Panama Canal, much of the U.S. and many islands in the Caribbean.

Marilyn is survived by her loving husband of sixty-four years, Tom; three children, Thomas Klinefelter, Robert (Lisa) Klinefelter, Catherine Klinefelter; and a sister in law, Elna Garthe.

She was preceded in death by her parents; and eight siblings, Laurel Blackmer, Carlton Garthe, Arnold Garthe, Dorothy Woodworth, Stanley Garthe, Ray Garthe, Bob Garthe and Phil Garthe.

A gathering will be held from 4 to 6 p.m. on Friday, March 6 at Martinson Funeral Home of Suttons Bay. 

The funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, March 7 with the family greeting friends at 10 a.m. at the Suttons Bay Congregational Church.  Rev. Dr. Robin Carden will officiate.

Private family burial in the Lutheran Cemetery of Suttons Bay will be held at a later date. 

Memorials may be directed to Suttons Bay Congregational Church, PO Box 70, Suttons Bay, MI 49682.
Please share condolences with Marilyn’s family below or on our Facebook page.

9 comments:

  1. So sorry to hear of Marilyn’s passing. She was always so cheerful with a twinkle in her eyes. Our condolences to the family. Sharon and Phil Phillips

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  2. Barbara Anderson (Louisville, KY)7:47 PM

    My sincere condolences. Marilyn was such a gracious lovely woman - I always enjoyed chatting with her about Suttons Bay activities.

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  3. We are all very sorry to hear that Marilyn passed away. I met her and Tom in the mid 80th, visiting Suttons Bay from Germany and we became more than friends over the years. What a terrible lost for the Klinefelter family. I will allways remember her as my "American mom", which I was allowed to call her, also all the thoughts she shared with me, her smile and her wisdome. We all will miss her alot even from the distance. I am so sorry not to be able to be there. Our deapest condolences to Tom sen. Tom, Bob and his wife and Cathy.
    Hans, Lenka, Nicolas and Philip - the Sturm's from Berlin- and Christi too

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  4. Marilyn was a devoted mother and wife. She was known for the beautiful letters she wrote to friends. She could tell you about the beautiful colors in trees and you were able to see them in your mind. She will be missed by all that knew and loved her. Sincerely Ann Brim

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  5. So sorry Tom to hear of your mothers passing. What a lovely lady.
    Thinking of you, Laurie

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  6. My trips to Suttons Bay will never be the same without my wonderful Aunt Marilyn. My family and I are going to miss her dearly!
    Love, Chris

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  7. Marilyn was a joy and so giving. She helped me out in many ways. Tom and her always had an open door for a visit at any time. I will miss our conversations. May God bless Tom and his family through this difficult time. It is good to know she is at peace and full of her active spunk in Heaven!

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  8. Jacquelyn Freeman6:49 AM

    So devastated to read of Marilyn's passing. She was a dear, dear friend, always a delight to visit with. Through our many years of being acquainted, she always welcomed me warmly into her home. She was a true friend, supportive and kind. I will miss her cheerfulness and charm, her kindness and hospitality.

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  9. Mike Oltersdorf7:55 AM

    My Deepest Sympathy to your family Tom! Marilyn always had a nice greeting, a big smile and time to talk. She was a treasure who will be missed by all!

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