Matthew R. Pleva
Died August 10, 2014
CEDAR--Matthew Richard Pleva, 14, of Cedar, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, Aug. 10, 2014 at Munson Medical Center.
Matt was born on Dec. 20, 1999, in Traverse City, the son of Dale
and Katrina (Weber) Pleva.
Matt was infinitely creative from the time he was old enough to
rearrange the living room furniture into Blanket Forts. He loved to build,
whether it was with Legos, wood, or Minecraft. He enjoyed Minecraft so much, in
fact, that he could watch hours of other people playing on YouTube--usually
when he was supposed to be sleeping.
Matt was an accomplished practical joker, always keeping his
family--especially his Mom and Dad--on their toes. One year he drew his own
name for Christmas, and instead of picking again, he bought his own presents.
Matt was Reserve Grand Champion in Market for dairy feeders at the
2014 Northwestern Michigan Fair, and he encouraged his older sister to switch
to steers for the 2015 fair. (So he wouldn’t have to beat her.) Matt loved animals, both real and stuffed. He slept with such a large pile of stuffed animals when he was younger that it was impossible to see if he was actually in the bed or not. He often snuck the family’s barn cats into the house, convinced he could tame them if he could keep them hidden in his room long enough. His most recent attempt gave birth on his bed, and by default--in true Matt-fashion-logic--those kittens became “his” kittens.
He loved to watch Xena, which bred his desire to visit New Zealand
and open his own restaurant. He never wore his own shoes, and whenever his mom
told him to put on a pair of jeans he refused to acknowledge he’d ever owned
any. He was happiest with his shoes off. He was very close to his cousin Abby,
and he liked to brag that Mark and Lexi were the best godparents out of all of
his siblings.
Matt had a unique sense of humor--if he could annoy someone,
especially his brother Jacob, he was happy. He would say “be-yuz” instead of
“because,” “tentically” instead of “technically,” and would precede questions
with “Wait, I’m confused,” just to drive his sisters crazy when they tried to
correct him. He always put his own spin on even the simplest of requests, and
he was forever asking questions that no one knew the answer to. Matt ran cross country and was planning on playing soccer for Glen Lake in the fall as a freshman. He loved any ride that got his adrenaline pumping, especially roller coasters. He loved music and computers, and he drove his mom nuts installing things she didn’t know how to get rid of. He liked Harry Potter and the Hunger Games, and he loved going to the movies with his siblings. He harbored an intense and unexpected love for all things LSU from the age of 8, and it was the only university he ever entertained attending.
Matt was an altar server at Holy Rosary Church and a Gift of Life
donor.
Matt is survived by his parents; maternal grandfather, Thomas P.
Weber, Sr.; paternal grandmother, Patricia Pleva; siblings, Lauryn, Kristen
(Richard) Rethoret, Kaley, Dale T., Kary, and Jacob Thomas; a nephew, Jonah
Richard Rethoret; family friend Sarah Kappele; and many loving aunts, uncles,
and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his brother, Jacob James; maternal
grandmother, Iva Weber; and paternal grandfather, Richard Pleva.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, Aug. 17 from 5 to 8 p.m. with a
rosary to be prayed at 7:30 at Holy Rosary Church in Isadore. The funeral mass will be celebrated on Monday, Aug. 18 at 11 a.m. also at the church. Burial will follow at Mt.
Calvary Cemetery. Fr. Donald Libby will serve as celebrant.
Memorials may be directed to Matthew R. Pleva Scholarship Fund,
P.O. Box 159, Suttons Bay, MI 49682, Mass Intentions, and/or to the Holy Rosary
Food Pantry, 6982 S. Schomberg Road, Cedar, MI 49621.
Arrangements are with the Martinson Funeral Home of Suttons Bay.
Forever loved, and forever in our hearts. We will miss you every day, Matthew, and especially miss your smile and sense of humor. Your obituary is beautiful and accurately captures your personality and spirit! May God keep you close, and provide strength, comfort, and peace to your family. Until we meet again...
ReplyDeleteYou are forever loved and forever in our hearts Matthew. I'm going to miss your smile, sense of humor, amazing personality and so much more. We all love you so much and miss you so much. I know you are in great hands up in heaven and I know you are watching over all of us. I love you so much little cousin and cannot wait to be with you again. Please watch over all of us. We love you so much. <3 R.I.P Matthew.
ReplyDeletePleva Family,
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry for the loss of Matthew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Just remember your 4-H family is here for you with whatever you need. Lots of love Dana, Lori and Levi Cederquist Long Lake 4-H Livestock
With deep sadness, I offer my thoughts and prayers to the Pleva family. Matt takes up a big place in my heart as I remember him fondly as journalism and language arts student...and also as a good friend of my son, AJ Van Farowe. The obituary does an excellent job capturing Matt's persona. He always had a wry sense of humor and was very creative in doing his own projects. I will miss him very, very much. We love you, Matt.
ReplyDeleteDear Pleva Family, It is with heartfelt sadness that we offer our prayers and thoughts to your family. Our boys, Jack and Matthew often said how nice Matthew was and what a good Altar Server he was. They would tell me that they wished they could spend more time with him because he always had fun and knew how to keep it "good" fun! They admired his ability to "snowmobile everywhere" and hope to be like him in that regard one day! What a sincere obituary and very well written! It gave a beautiful testimony to his life and is a treasure. Matthew is loved and missed, God rest him and love you all. Love and Prayers, Basil and Caroline Bardenhagen and Family
ReplyDeleteDear Dale, Trina and children, Please accept our sincere sympathies on the loss of your son and brother. We will be praying for God to ease your aching hearts in his time. God Bless you all. Love Angela & David Brzeczkowski
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. Grandma Iva has her arms around him and will take care of him until the time comes for all of us to meet again
ReplyDeleteDale, Trina, and family. Our hearts break for your loss. Each time we read the loving obituary we feel even closer to a wonderful young man. So sorry the world has lost its chance to get to know him better. May God Bless you with strength and peace. Larry and Linda Weber
ReplyDeleteDale ,Trina, and the whole Pleva family, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family! We are so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin Matthew! May you know are thoughts are with you and we are praying for your whole family at this very difficult time! God bless your whole family!! Love Dan, Mary, and Arielle Sadowski
ReplyDeleteDear Dale, Trina and family,
ReplyDeleteThis loss of Matt is so profound, I know there is really no way to comfort you, but that is what I wish for you...comfort in some way in some time. We feel a special connection to Matt since he so recently served at my dad's funeral mass. It sounds like he was such a creative and enjoyable young man. He would have been the kind of guy I'd want my boys to have as a friend, if we lived back in Leelanau. My prayers are with you all. Warmly, Mindy Popa Scherr
Time (by Henry VanDyke)
ReplyDeleteTime is too slow for those who wait,
Too swift for those who fear
Too long for those who grieve,
Too short for those who rejoice ...
But for those who love,
Time is Eternity.
Dear Pleva Family,
As you approach the three month anniversary of Matthew's death, may Time be kind to you as you work through your grief.
May your time of grieving eventually turn to joy, your time of waiting turn to hope, your time of loss turn to love.
Just know that there are may of us, your friends and neighbors, who are constantly with you in thought and prayer.
May Faith, Hope and Love help ease your heartache. We wish you all three of those gifts as you wait to spend
Eternity with Matthew, and your family will be reunited once again. May the Lord continue to bless you and keep you.
With love always,
Judy and Glenn